My brother
was scheduled for a very invasive, extensive surgery on April 18. I really wanted to be there to support him
and his family, so Jim and I made arrangements to fly back to the northeast two
days before. The week before, we had
scheduled a number of doctor and dentist visits, for routine tests and check-ups,
to establish ourselves with local doctors now that we finally have a permanent
address in Florida. That week turned out to be crazy!
First, I had
my yearly mammogram. The results were held
up a bit while the doctor’s office waited for the hospital in New Jersey to send
the results of previous mammograms for comparison. Just a day or so before we left, I heard from
the doctor. They saw a density in the
mammogram and needed to do an ultrasound. This
is pretty routine for me, so I wasn’t overly concerned, but I had to put it
off. Not a good idea, of course, since I've already had a related cancer, but
unavoidable.
Then, just a
couple of days before our flight was scheduled, I received word that our eldest
daughter Amy was in the hospital with pneumonia – in Arizona. My heart was torn. There was a good chance, given my brother’s
heart history, that he might not survive the surgery, so I wanted to be
there. And then, there was my eldest,
all on her own in a hospital far away. Both
were tugging on my heart strings. Thankfully,
it was near a weekend, so we quickly booked a flight and sent our youngest
daughter out to be with her sister.
Finally,
that week I was also experiencing stuffiness in my ears. I know this is gross, but I have issues with
ear wax collecting in a very narrow canal in my right eat. I didn’t want to have pain flying, so I quickly
made an appointment with an ENT to remove the wax. When he finished, I noticed that the sound in
my right ear was muffled and I mentioned it to the doctor. Since that result was unusual, he did a
hearing test and found that I had a hearing loss in my right ear that I hadn’t
had before. He suspected an infection
behind the ear drum. More gross!
The solution
was simple. Take a quick acting dose of
prednisone. As soon as I heard that, I reacted. I’d had prednisone before for a respiratory infection. It messed so much with my brain that I made a
vow then never to take it again. So that
solution was out.
He suggested
aspirin. But I only have one kidney now
and had been advised to stay away from aspirin.
Suggestion number
three. He would refer me to another ENT
who would inject a series of shots of a steroid into my ear drum. Ewwwww!
We were just two days away from flying and I did not want to do that, but I went to the other ENT anyway.
He decided that since this was a bad allergy season, maybe I was just reacting to that. So he gave me a nasal spray and suggested I come back in two weeks if I wasn’t any better.
All along
the way it seemed, we were encountering road blocks in the way of our
going to New York to be with my brother.
Each situation seemed designed to raise my stress level, preoccupy my
mind, and keep me in Florida and not New York.
At that
moment, I had no idea of the amazing and miraculous thing the Lord was about to
do. All I knew was that nothing was going
to keep me from being with my brother and his family during the time of his
surgery and recovery.
More to
follow. . . . .
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